Stay with me as we run through how your life got its programming up to this point. Then, if you agree there is a next step, read on to discover how to reprogram your thinking to a win/win.

Some of our first training is about right/wrong. We are trained that it is right to keep the food on your tray rather than throw it about the room. It is right to mind your parents; it is wrong not to. We are taught these dualities in different ways depending on the parents and their upbringing. We get the right/wrong message instilled in our minds at an early age.

When we get a bit older, we learn about good/bad. It is good to pay attention in class; it is bad not to. It is good to have a good grade card; it is bad not to. It is good to have friends; it is bad not to. It is good to look attractive; it is bad not to.

Then come the win/lose lessons. We win if we make enough money to fit our lifestyle; we lose face if we don’t. We win confidence if our partner fits our image of right; we lose if they don’t. We win our children’s cooperation when we give them what they want; we get bad behavior when we choose not to.

All this is to point out how our lives get programmed to believe in dualities. In the world’s belief system, there are always two sides. Every situation is viewed as having two opposing outcomes. But our lower minds are reprogrammable. The trick is finding the right coder. You can find professionals to help. You can do self-help through books and professional recordings.

However, to finally live life from a win/win, you must let divine wisdom of your spirit do the recoding. Your spirit’s thinking is one of truth that has no downside. Every piece of wisdom it offers will be best for you and will cause no harm to those around you. Unfortunately, all those folks stuck in their duality thinking may not recognize your new center point of truth that always thinks in the unity of win/win. But if you are living your truth there is no downside for you or them.

Dualities will always compete with their opposite; thus, they will never find the love of two spirits resonating in unity. Which is the greatest win/win in life. And it is yours for the taking. But it must be a constant. Every lapse back to duality thinking pulls you away from your spirit’s divine wisdom.