When we walk away from a conversation where there is a heart exchange, we feel great. Of course, we want more. The problem is we are not sure how that heart exchange happened so we don’t know how to have a repeat.

A repeat only seems difficult because we try to figure out mentally how to make a heart exchange happen. When in truth, it is always happening. We just have to shut our lower mind’s yammering long enough to experience it. When we stop trying to mentally figure out how to make love happen and realize it is always present, we can relax in the oneness resonance of our hearts.

When we rise above the need to convince someone that we are worthy of love or the need to convince them that they are loveable, the lower mind gives up control and joins with the higher mind in supporting heart love. In that quiet space, the communication of hearts becomes the subject.

However, you must realize that even if you start a conversation with a quiet mind and an open heart, the listener may refuse to stop their lower mind chatter long enough to acknowledge the love that resonates between you.

Let me share an example. Recently I had a conversation with a friend about adding a chair in a room they wanted me to decorate. I started the conversation by saying I wanted their feedback so we could be on the same page (i.e. join hearts around beauty). While the love subject was about beauty, the physical subject was about a chair. But instead of joining me in a conversation about what would best add beauty, she decided to make it a mental battle. She contradicted every word that I stated. If I said red, she said brown, etc. Since I intended to share beauty, not words, I put the conversation on hold until we could include our hearts in the communication.

If we had continued without the love of beauty being the subject, the room might have turned out fine. But the heart quality of beauty would not have turned out fine, because it would not have been loved. We would have just added one more untruth in our unconscious minds about love being difficult to obtain. Whereas, if we return to the conversation with the intent to make our heart’s quality of beauty the subject, our belief that love is always present will be strengthened.