When you ask someone how their day is going, it can become a conversation filler, a momentary interest in what is happening in their life, or it can become a love connection. The love connection occurs when you look behind the words to the intent of love their heart was holding. Their heart’s love will resonate with yours, even before the words are spoken. The heart is very savvy. 🙂

We have been trained to believe that listening means taking in their words. And I am not saying you should ignore what a person is saying. But there is more to listening than just the words. There is an awareness that the creative force of love is part of the conversation.

Let’s say I tell you I am going to the store to buy groceries. If you know me, you know that health is important, and I am probably going with the intent of health. By figuring out my intent you would easily sense the resonance of health between us. We would both walk away with the love of health a bit stronger.

But what if I said I was going to the hardware store to buy a fire starter for my wood stove? The love subject is not as clear-cut. A wood stove might mean attentiveness or comfort. The fire starter could be a support piece. In other words, your mind can get in the way. So it might be easier to find the love intent by going directly to the source.

While mental information often has great value, it is not meant to stand alone. Unless love is acknowledged, wisdom will have nothing to shape. And without love-shaped wisdom guiding your interactions, there will not be enough light-power to move your relationship forward.

If you only hear words in the sharing, you will miss out on the love gift present. The heart never goes on vacation, so it is always on active duty to join love. Only by claiming love’s resonance will you experience the unity bond that reminds us that we are one.

So basically, all you have to do to have loving, powerful relationships is listen behind the words and find love’s resonance. Neither agreeing nor disagreeing with words will produce love. Love’s home base is not the mind but the heart. So include it with the words and communication will take on a new purpose.